To have a flirty live phone chat, you need something to talk about. Don't let a lack of ideas keep you off the phone. Here are four flirty topics and tips on taking them all to the "next level":
1. Entertainment News
Dating blogger Jackie Pilossoph advises couples on first dates to steer clear of political discussions but focus on the news instead. Although the war and famine may be fun over drinks and dinner, it's too heavy for flirty phone chat. Keep her advice but modify it slightly – foray into the entertainment news sector instead. Who's your favourite star? What's your favourite show? In this vein of questioning, you will likely quickly find common ground with the voice on the other end of the line.
When you're ready to take the chat to the next level, describe your favourite steamy scenes and ask your chatty friend to do the same. Admit your fantasy crushes or which golden couple you'd love to watch in person. Keep it playful, and you can have a lot of fun with this topic.
Talking about hobbies during a date is a great way to keep the conversation interesting and reveal true parts of yourself. Focusing on hobbies is far preferable to talking about a boring career, especially one that doesn't live up to the true you. However, if you have a career you love and that defines you, it's basically a hobby and passion anyway, so in that case, talk about it!
After you've finished talking about abseiling, surfing or climbing, give the person on the other end of the line some more information on other active conquests you enjoy. Tell the other single what you enjoy doing at home behind locked doors or out and about in dark corners. If you don't have any active hobbies in this vein, talk about your plans for new adventures.
Speaking of adventures, everyone's had one or two, and over the phone is the perfect way to tell these tales. Dig into your memory and talk about your gap year trip across Europe, your journeys through Thailand, the time you were a diving instructor in Indonesia or even your childhood camping trips. After you've shared few laughs about places you've been, people you've met and sights you've seen, considering sharing any illicit trips you've had.
Share a few stories about times you stared at the sky and saw swirls, had wild nights you couldn't remember or even had the munchies cheer you on as you ate a whole cake. Trading these tales is fun for anyone who has had these experiences, and it provides a fast connection between two strangers who may not share much beyond a fondness for living and feeling its intense joys.
If sharing tales of chemical-soaked bloodstreams doesn't yield conversation, talk about other firsts. When was the first time you left the country? When was the first time you went to a concert? When was the first time you went surfing?
As the answers begin coming fast and furiously on the topic of firsts, make the questions more flirty. Ask about the first time the person on the other end of the phone saw someone naked, the first time they got kissed or the first time they went on date. Make it fun and share your own flirty firsts.
If you're nervous, take a few notes based on the ideas above. Give yourself some written conversation prompts. Then, pick up the phone and call someone for a live chat. Why not? You've got plenty of interesting things to say. For more information, contact a company like Hot Gozzip Talk.